Logon ke dimag me apna khas mukam kaise banaye?

in 5 charanon ka paalan karen 

kya hamen sabake dimaag mein jagah lenee chaahie?  yadi ham nimnalikhit paanch baaton ka paalan karen to nishchit roop se ham sabhee ke man mein ek alag sthaan bana sakate hain. 

1. hamen apane aasapaas ke logon ko mahatv dena chaahie. hamen unakee baaton ko sunana chaahie aur dhairy se sunana chaahie. is prakaar hamaare aas-paas ke log suraksha kee bhaavana ke saath apanee maanasik bhaavana ko svatantr roop se hamaare lie jaaree karenge.

jab ham unakee baaton ko dhyaan se sunate hain, to ham unaka samarthan karate hain. nishchay hee ve hamaare lie man mein ek alag sthaan rakhenge. 

ek aur mahatvapoorn baat yah hai ki jo kuchh unhonne hamen bataaya hai vah hamen kisee aur ko nahin bataana chaahie. isalie sabase mahatvapoorn baat jo ham kar sakate hain vah hai doosaron kee bhaavanaon ko dhyaan se sunana. 

2. ek doosare kee buraee karana jaayaz nahin hai. aisa bolane vaalon kee koee ijjat nahin karega. hamen sabake prati vaphaadaar rahana chaahie. agar ham is baare mein baat karate hain ki ham kaun hain ya ham kis baare mein baat kar rahe hain, to hamen napharat hona tay hai. 

paksh mein bolana ek bahut hee bhraamak visheshata hai. agar ham vah galatee karate hain, to hamen koee bhee pasand nahin karega. to jo log doosaron ke man mein jagah banaana chaahate hain, unhen kya nahin karana chaahie, vo hai khulakar bolana. 

3. hamen hamesha apanee samasya ke baare mein baat karane ke bajaay un logon ko abhivyakti kee svatantrata denee chaahie jo hamaare saath hain. is prakaar ve chaahenge ki ham nikat rahen. 

unake man mein hamaare baare mein ek shreshth vrtti prakat hotee hai. is prakaar ham aasaanee se unake man mein jagah bana sakate hain. abhivyakti kee svatantrata ek vyaktigat maanav adhikaar hai jisakee har koee apeksha karata hai. 

4. yadi doosare man mein jagah lena chaahate hain, to man se svaarth ko door karana hoga. jab man se svaarth door ho jaata hai, to hamaare man mein doosaron kee madad karane kee ichchha paida hotee hai. 

to duniya kisee aise vyakti ko apane sir par rakhegee jo bina kisee svaarth ke doosaron kee madad karata hai. ek or yadi ham kisee aapaat sthiti mein kisee kee madad karate hain, to devata hamaaree aapaat sthiti mein hamaara saath denge. yah bhee doosaron ke man mein hone vaalee ek mahatvapoorn visheshata hai. 

5. agar ham ant mein sachche pyaar ka hathiyaar utha lenge to har koee hamaara gulaam ban jaega. jahaan pyaar hota hai vahaan shabd thode kam hote hain. 

isalie jitana ho sake kisee ke man ko thes pahunchae bina karm karane se ham jisase pyaar karate hain vah hamaare pyaar mein pad jaega. 

aisa karana har kisee ke dimaag mein aasaanee se aa sakata hai. agar ham kathor shabdon ka prayog kie bina sundar shabd bolate hain, to har koee hamen pasand karega.